Upcoming Events for Volunteers & Staff
NMC Volunteer Appreciation Event
Please join us as we appreciate YOU. Let’s all gather together and add a strike to summer!
When: Wednesday, August 14, 2024 5-8 PM (ish)
Where: Coconut Bowl 1855 E. Lincoln Way, Sparks, NV 89434
The Neighborhood Mediation Center would like to show our appreciation for your hard work and dedication to civility and conflict resolution in our community.
Please, allow NMC to treat you and yours to an evening of bowling, food, good conversation, and fun! We have rented out the private bowling garage at the Coconut Bowl and bowling, shoes, and food are on us!
There will be pizza, appetizers, salad, and soft drinks.
Not a bowler? Please join us for the conversation and good cheer off the alley.
Science Distilled: The Story of the Mind
Science Distilled, the lecture series created by Desert Research Institute (DRI) and The Discovery, makes cutting-edge science approachable through presentations on current and curious topics, held at hip locations in a social atmosphere. Started in 2016, speakers at Science Distilled events have covered topics ranging from genetics, to climate, to personal energy independence.
The Power of Reflective Practice
You Are Invited to a Free Interactive Online Seminar
The Power of Reflective Practice
Friday, March 8, 2024 12 noon - 1:30 pm EST
The ACR Family Section invites all ACR members, and others who are interested, to join a free interactive online program, The Power of Reflective Practice, to learn about reflective practice groups and how they can enhance your practice. Susan Terry, Ellen Waldorf and Michael Lang, of Reflective Practice International Institute, will demonstrate and explain their reflective practice method to help practitioners explore why they make the choices they do in working with parties.. Click here for more information.
To register, email admin@acrnet.org and provide your name and email. Please put "Reflective Practice" in the subject line. We will send you the Zoom link for this program.
Emotional Intelligence In Service
It’s time for an in-service evening chat on Zoom. The topic this time is Emotional Intelligence (EI) and Mediation. I’ve attached a couple of great articles on the subject, there are loads of articles and books out there.
Also here are two different sites to take a free EI/EQ test, there are several of these out on the web as well. Most give you a sample of how you did for free, and you can purchase the detailed version. I’ve taken both of these and purchased the detailed result from the Psychology Today test. Both were enlightening, surprising, and helpful.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/tests/personality/emotional-intelligence-test
https://www.mtdtraining.com/free-eq-test
I hope you’ll take these, or find one you like to take, and look at these articles, maybe do some research on your own so that we can all get together and have a conversation about what we find. Think about how this topic has been woven into your mediations, where could you do better? Where do you shine? It’s a huge part of everything we do, but we’ll keep the conversation to mediation!
We’ve chosen Thursday, March 7 from 6:30pm-8:00pm for the in-service. We’ll send a reminder as the date gets closer and the link on the day of.
Hope to see you all virtually!!
NMC New Year Holiday Party and Workshop
It’s time for an NMC Holiday get together and in-service workshop, information is below. Please join us!!!
Unconscious Bias - Checking Our Biases at the Door
Yep! We all have bias and it comes in all shapes and sizes. From a mediators perspective, we need to understand where our biases show up and how to manage that part of our being. This session will help you learn a practice for looking inside, before, during and after your mediations so learning continues to happen for years to come.
Reading Body Language (Copy)
Is that really the best offer they are going to make? Why did his leg just start twitching? What does that expression really mean? Way beyond the facial expressions we are good at reading is a whole other system of communicating through body language. Let's look at and interpret some of the more common language and perhaps some of the not so common.
Advanced Reflective Listening
Reflective listening is often a mediators go to tool. Properly executed it can make people feel heard, help uncover interests, and lead to new possibilities in complex negotiations. Let's explore this technique together in an advanced interactive format.
Brainstorming and Expanding Their Pie
Laura Weiss brings a lifetime of negotiation experience to this class. Her experience as an idea expander with IDEO will help you grasp a new tool or two that will allow you to broaden the number of potential solutions in your next mediation..
Mental Health Awareness for Mediators
Have you ever been in a mediation and wondered if one or both of the parties had the mental capacity to negotiate and sign off on a deal? This lesson won't help you diganose a condition, but will instead help you identify when and how to make judgement calls around mental health, and it's impact on your mediation process.
The Art of Asking The Right Question(s)
This session goes way beyond the basics of open and closed styles of questions, centering on the art of asking the right question for the right moment in time. Dangerous questions and questions from the heart, bring this class to full life both in and out of the mediation room.
Working with Interpreters
At one time or another we all will work with parties that don’t speak the same language. The proper use of professional interpreters is critical in these circumstances. Please join Natalia Cardillo, Interpreter Services Coordinator from the Reno Justice Court, in the exploration of the best practices for both the mediator and interpreter when working together to help the parties.
What Triggers/Hooks Me as a Mediator?
Conflict hooks are your personal hot buttons. They come from within you, not really from someone else pressing them, though that’s how we generally talk about them (He just presses my buttons). They’re based in your identity, or how you see yourself (and want others to see you) in the world. This powerful lesson provides a door to self awareness for both individuals and teams. (see Tammy Lenski’s book “The Conflict Pivot” for information on this topic)
Reflective Debriefing Tools for the Mediator
One of the most valuable learning tools we have as practitioners is each other. Our skills around being excellent active listeners can be put to use in ways that can help other practitioners learn from their work in ways they can never get from a book or a class. When we help each other dive deep into what happened in a meeting, and see what was going on for us as the practitioner at specific points in the process, we all learn key lessons about ourselves and the process.
NMC Volunteer Appreciation Party
Please join us for this relaxed and fun celebration of you! the NMC volunteers. Thank you for being the engine that drives the work NMC does, and for making such a positive impact on this community. Without you, we’d be lost.
NMC - Community Gathering
Let’s get together and enjoy each other’s company! Venue and activities TBD…
Trust and its Impact on Mediation
There are differences, and in some cases vast differences, in the way we each formulate our trust for others. In other words… We don’t all trust or distrust for the same reasons. This key fact impacts our parties trust in each other and in us as mediators. Understanding the underbelly of how conflict works is what we'll strive for in this class based on a single model of trust building. Click above to read more.
TPOs Part 2 & De-escalation Techniques for Mediators
(Judge Hascheff of RJC will join us for TPO Part 2) We'll talk about Protection Order cases with an insider and spend as much time as we can talking about de-escalating tensions in the mediation room.
Zoom Meeting - https://us02web.zoom.us/j/7054001178?pwd=bW51RVFlMk96Wkd0eWxNclV3TUUyZz09
Mediating Temporary Protection Order Cases
Protection order cases, also known as Temporary Protection Orders (TPO), are cases in which one party is seeking protection from the other party from issues like harassment, threats of violence, etc.…Our mediation model works well in these cases, and, there are some things to watch out for. If you are considering adding this type of case to your bookings, or would like to brush up on the complexities, come learn some of the special operations from those who have been there. Join us on Zoom - https://us02web.zoom.us/j/7054001178?pwd=bW51RVFlMk96Wkd0eWxNclV3TUUyZz09